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Full Abbey Yung Method guide with step-by-step instructions, product lists, routine examples, and a curly/wavy hair review.
If you're here, you've probably heard of the Abbey Yung method. If not, it's a haircare routine created by beauty influencer Abbey Yung. It’s gained popularity partly because her hair looks amazing, and partly because she goes against a lot of the trends people are tired of. She recommends affordable drugstore products, pushes back against “chemophobia” (the fear of ingredients like sulfates and silicones), and says to wash your hair as often as you actually need. In a world where influencers warn that your hair will fall out if you wash more than once a week or touch a drugstore product, her approach feels refreshing.
In many ways, her routine is the opposite of the Curly Girl Method. It might even be the perfect option for those of us who are “silicone curious” like myself.
This guide will help you understand the why behind what Abbey recommends, which will help you whether or not you use her exact products — especially if you have curly, coily, or wavy hair. It's also written to be useful if you don't want to watch all her videos (some people are still more into reading, like me).
If this is getting complicated, you can take the quiz to get an idea of what steps might be right for you.
Huge disclaimer, I am not Abbey Yung. I try to be as accurate as possible, but ultimately this is my interpretation and is colored by my opinions.
Summer 2026 update: Abbey has made some changes that have been documented in the post and says she eventually will release a Abbey Yung Method 2.0.
But if you're reading this Abbey and you want an official routine generator hit me up.
If you want a routine based on this post, take the quiz below.
Take the quiz to get step-by-step product picks based on your hair, scalp, damage level, and styling goals.
Recently in a video Abbey outlined the core of her method:
A lot of influencers talk about these things but I think some additional reasons she stands out are:
While anyone can do the Abbey Yung method, it's worth keeping in mind what she does that I notice:
All things that can make your hair look really good but also can damage it. That's why her routine is so focused on damage protection and repair, especially protection from heat and repair of bonds inside the hair broken by chemical treatments or heat.
I've seen some people say Abbey's hair isn't damaged and that's false. She has highlights which always break bonds and she posted a microscopic analysis showing damage, especially at the ends. But she's a testament to how you can have damaged hair that doesn't look or feel damaged.
Some of her recommendations may need to be adjusted if:
You'll also need to keep in mind that your hair will not magically turn into Abbey's hair. What your hair looks like isn't just about routine, it's a combo of genetics, her styling technique skill, the salon professionals she goes to, and really good lighting.
If there is one thing you take away from this post I hope it's that really knowing your hair can help you choose the right products.
Abbey recommends multiple different options per step and tells you what kind of hair each is for.
I identified several characteristics that Abbey uses when recommending different products. Knowing these will help you choose the right ones regardless of whether you follow her exact recommendations.
I'll explain each in the sections they affect. Some of these are easier to know than others. If you're not sure, try out the quiz. If you want detailed, accurate results consider an analysis by Strandprint using code CBOT10 for 10% off.
Product weight refers to how heavy or light a product is in terms of conditioning. It's not a strict definition but typically:
Heavy products are:
Light products are:
You may need light products if your hair is:
I have a free guide to light products that goes into more detail.
You may need heavy products if your hair is:
If you're not sure where your hair falls, the weight recommendations are built into the quiz.
I've divided the steps up between those steps she recommends everyone do which I call core and those steps that are optional depending on your needs I call boosts. This is my own terminology.
These are the steps Abbey recommends for every routine. The terminology of core is my own way I think of them, not Abbey's.
Previously this step was called "Clarifying Shampoo" but in summer 2026 Abbey renamed it to "Deep Cleaning Shampoo". These provide a stronger residue-free clean.
Abbey says everyone needs a deep cleaning shampoo at least once a week for scalp health and to deal with buildup from products, scalp sebum, or the environment. Some of her deep cleaners also help loosen sebum, scales, flakes, and dead skin cell buildup, which clears a path for scalp actives to penetrate, which she explains in her video on scalp health shampoos.
In summer 2026 Abbey also added several new deep cleaning shampoos that overlap with the new category "Benefit Shampoos" (similar to the old category "Strengthening Shampoos"). I'll cover more info about these in that section.
She recommends choosing your deep cleaning shampoo based on:
How often you need a deep clean depends on your hair. Some people with fine hair or oily scalps can use a deep cleaning shampoo every wash. Others only need it once a week and will want a gentler shampoo for other washes — more on that in the benefit shampoo section.
| Product | Details | Cleaning Power | Scalp Type |
|---|---|---|---|
![]() K18 Peptide Prep Detox Shampoo | Hard water deposit removal; also a chelating benefit shampoo Best for: Normal, dry, or oily scalps Non-drugstoreDeep CleaningChelating | strong | normal, dry, oily |
Garnier Fructis Pure Clean Purifying Shampoo | Residue free Best for: Normal, dry, or oily scalps DrugstoreDeep Cleaning | moderate | normal, dry, oily |
Head & Shoulders Classic Clean Anti-Dandruff Shampoo | Medicated (OTC). Best for: Itching, scaling, and flaking concerns (see a doctor for diagnosis) DrugstoreDeep CleaningMedicated | strong | oily |
L'Oreal EverPure Clarifying Shampoo | Hard water deposit removal, residue free; also a chelating benefit shampoo Best for: Normal, dry, or oily scalps DrugstoreDeep CleaningChelating | moderate | normal, dry, oily |
Neutrogena Hair Restore Triple Action Scalp Detox Cleanser | Scalp buildup removal and exfoliation with a residue-free strong clean. Mandelic acid may help reduce sebum production. Best for: Oily scalps, most hair types DrugstoreDeep CleaningScalp Health | strong | oily |
Neutrogena T/Sal+ 3% Salicylic Acid Anti-Dandruff Shampoo | Medicated (OTC). Best for: Exfoliating and clearing oil, flakes, and buildup. Normal to oily scalps, most hair types DrugstoreDeep CleaningMedicated | strong | normal, oily |
Nizoral Anti-Dandruff Shampoo | Medicated (OTC) Best for: Reducing itching, irritation, scaling, and flaking (see a doctor for diagnosis). Most hair types, most scalp types DrugstoreMedicated | moderate | normal, dry, oily |
OGX ProGrowth + Peptide Clarifying Shampoo | Scalp buildup removal and exfoliation; residue-free Best for: Most hair types DrugstoreDeep CleaningScalp Health | moderate, strong | normal, dry, oily |
Pantene Sheer Volume Shampoo | Residue-free Best for: Oily and extra oily scalps DrugstoreDeep Cleaning | strong | oily, extra oily |
Dr. Groot Scalp Revitalizing Solution | Residue-free. Aimed at scalp microbiome support, fortifying follicles, hair retention, and strengthening new growth. Best for: Most scalp types, most hair types Non-drugstoreDeep CleaningScalp Health | moderate, strong | normal, dry, oily |
Nioxin Hair Fall Defense Shampoo | Residue-free strong clean. Aimed at stimulating follicles, prolonging growth phase, strengthening new growth, and improving hair anchorage. Best for: Oily scalps, most hair types Non-drugstoreDeep CleaningScalp Health | strong | oily |
Ouai Detox | Hard water deposit removal, residue free, heavy duty clean; also a chelating benefit shampoo Best for: Oily and extra oily scalps Non-drugstoreDeep CleaningChelating | strong | oily, extra oily |
Redken Acidic Grow Full Densifying Shampoo | Residue-free strong clean. Aimed at scalp barrier support, reducing hair fall from brushing, and strengthening new growth. Best for: Oily scalps, most hair types Non-drugstoreDeep CleaningScalp Health | strong | oily |
Can't find these products? Look for a clarifying, purifying, or detox shampoo with a strong residue-free clean. If you have hard water, get one formulated to remove mineral deposits. If your hair is damaged or tangles easily, look for one that says "for damaged hair" or similar on the label as these tend to have more conditioning ingredients. If your hair is easily weighed down, look for shampoos labeled clarifying, purifying, or detox — my Guide to Light Products has more info on finding these.
Abbey's conditioner step isn't limited to products labeled "conditioner": depending on your hair, a mask or a gloss might actually be a better fit. All are technically conditioners, just at different weights: glosses tend to be lighter, masks tend to be heavier.
Which to pick:
Within each category she has recommendations ranging from light to heavy.
| Product | Details | Weight |
|---|---|---|
![]() Amika flash instant shine mask | Gloss Non-drugstoregloss | light |
![]() Amika the kure intense strength repair mask | Mask for hair that benefits from heavy conditioning Best for: Coarse/thick hair that is NOT easily weighed down Non-drugstoremask | heavy |
![]() amika the kure strength repair conditioner | Conditioner for softness without intense smoothing Best for: Coarse/thick hair that is NOT easily weighed down Non-drugstoreconditioner | medium, heavy |
Dove Bond Strength Conditioner | Conditioner for intense smoothing Best for: Coarse/thick hair that is super tangly and difficult to manage Drugstoreconditioner | medium, heavy |
Dove Conditioner Intensive Repair for Damaged Hair | Conditioner, softening and smoothing without heaviness Best for: Most hair types Drugstoreconditioner | light |
Dove Hair Bond Strength 10in1 Serum Mask | Mask for soft, sleek, silky results Best for: Coarse/thick hair that is difficult to manage, hair that is NOT easily weighed down Drugstoremask | medium, heavy |
Dove Hair Intensive Repair 10in1 Serum Mask for Damaged Hair | Mask, silky soft less sleek results and better repair than dove bond strength Best for: Most hair types Drugstoremask | medium |
L'Oreal Paris Elvive Hyaluron Plump Flash Hydration Wonder Water Hair Rinse | Gloss Drugstoregloss | light |
L'Oreal Paris Glossing Lamination Hair Mask with Glycolic Acid | Gloss Drugstoregloss | light |
Loreal Bond Repair Conditioner | Conditioner for softness without intense smoothing Best for: Coarse/thick hair that NOT easily weighed down Drugstoreconditioner | heavy |
Loreal Elvive Glycolic Gloss Conditioner | Conditioner, good for hair that needs volume, shine and smoothing Best for: Most hair types including fine/thin hair Drugstoreconditioner | light |
Loreal Everpure Glossing Conditioner | Conditioner for silky sleek results without heaviness, smoother results than the Elvive conditioner Best for: Most hair types Drugstoreconditioner | medium |
OGX Repair & Protect Bond Protein Repair 1-Minute Treatment Mask | Mask for soft, breathable results Best for: Normal to coarse/thick hair that need something a little lighter than the Dove masks Drugstoremask | medium |
Pantene Miracle Rescue Deep Conditioner with Melting Pro-V Pearls | Mask for soft, voluminous results Best for: Fine/thin hair Drugstoremask | light |
Pantene Miracle Rescue Mask | Mask, more conditioning than the other Pantene option Best for: Most hair types Drugstoremask | light |
Elizavecca cer-100 collagen coating hair protein treatment | Soft, lightweight mask for damage repair Best for: Fine/thin hair Non-drugstoremask | very light |
Pureology Strength Cure Conditioner | Conditioner, for softness without sacrificing volume Best for: Most hair types Non-drugstoreconditioner | medium |
Redken Acidic Bonding Conditioner | Conditioner for those who want a thicker, creamier option Best for: Coarse/thick hair that is NOT easily weighed down Non-drugstoreconditioner | heavy |
Can't find these products? Honestly almost any conditioner, gloss, or mask should work here. For damaged hair look for something labeled for damaged or color-treated hair as these tend to be higher in cationic conditioners, which are more effective on damaged hair than products that are just heavy in oils and butters. For light conditioners words like "volumizing" on the label can indicate it's light -- my Guide to Light Products has more info on finding light conditioners.
This is one step I'd argue is non-negotiable and I say that as someone who avoided leave-ins for years because every one I tried weighed my hair down. The right one makes a real difference. Without any leave-in, your hair is more susceptible to heat damage, UV damage, and friction, and more likely to tangle.
She classifies leave-ins by weight:
| Product | Details | Weight |
|---|---|---|
![]() Pantene Miracle Rescue 10 in 1 Multitasking Leave in Conditioner Spray | Great for fine/thin hair Best for: Hair types that are easily weighed down but still need detangling and damage support Drugstore | very light |
![]() Bumble and bumble. Hairdresser's Invisible Oil Primer | Best for: Coarse/thick hair nedding heavy conditioning and smoothing than liquid sprays, that is NOT easily weighed down Non-drugstore | heavy |
![]() Redken One United All-In-One Leave In Conditioner | Best for: Normal to thick/coarse hair OR any hair types that are dry/damaged/tangled and need more intensive conditioning than liquidy options Non-drugstore | medium, heavy |
EverPure L'Oreal Paris Sulfate Free Moisture 21-in-1 Leave-In Conditioner | The most conditioning drugstore option Best for: Coarse/thick hair that is NOT easily weighed down Drugstore | heavy |
OGX Repair & Protect Bond Protein Repair 450°F Heat Protect Spray, | Good in-between for more conditioning than Pantene and TRESemmé, but still lighter than creamier formulas Best for: Most hair types Drugstore | medium |
Tresemme Heat Tamer | Lightweight smoothing and frizz control Best for: Hair types that are easily weighed down but not prone to heavy tangling Drugstore | very light |
TRESemmé Keratin Smooth Blowout | Lightweight smoothing and frizz control, a bit more conditioning and smoothing than Heat Tamer Best for: Fine/thin to normal hair Drugstore | light |
Pureology Color Fanatic Multi-Tasking Leave-In Spray, 21 Benefits for All Hair Types | Best for: Normal to thick/coarse hair that's not easily weighed down, great for VERY tangle-prone hair Non-drugstore | heavy |
Can't find these products? Look for a spray leave-in that includes heat protection.
These are steps you can add based on your specific needs. Think of them as targeted upgrades rather than requirements. "Boosts" is my terminology, not Abbey's.
This step was previously "Strengthening shampoo" but in Summer 2026 Abbey renamed it to Benefit Shampoos and added several subcategories:
Strengthening: These are largely shampoos from the original category. They provide a gentler clean plus softening/smoothing benefits, but may weigh some hair types down. If your hair feels dry, brittle, tangled, or hard to manage, she recommends these on non-deep-cleaning wash days (and after a deep clean when you want hair to feel nicer/softer).
Chelating: These are for people whose water is hard as they're formulated to remove hard-water minerals. Use once a week or more if you have hard water. Some (like EverPure Clarifying, k18 Peptide Prep, and Ouai Detox) are also deep cleaning; others (L'oreal Metal Detox, Living Proof Clarifying) are gentler and more conditioning. None of her recommendations meet my own standards for hard-water mineral removal claims as discussed in my Guide to Hard Water.
Scalp Health: These have actives aimed at things like scalp barrier/microbiome support, fortifying follicles, hair retention, exfoliation, and density support. Abbey says to use these as often as possible. Several are also deep cleaning (they'll show an "Also deep cleaning" badge below).
Medicated: These are OTC drug shampoos for itching, scaling, and flaking (dandruff). Abbey recommends prioritizing them and using as often as possible. This is not medical advice — please see a doctor to get a diagnosis before treating scalp conditions.Two of these are also deep cleaning.
There is overlap with Deep Cleaning: some products are both a Benefit shampoo and a deep cleaner. If you're picking one product that covers multiple needs, that's fine. If the overlap feels confusing, I programmed the logic into the Abbey Yung Ish Routine Builder so you can try that to find a shampoo (or up to two).
But here are the products:
| Product | Details | Scalp Type | Cleaning Power |
|---|---|---|---|
![]() K18 Peptide Prep Detox Shampoo | Hard water deposit removal; also a chelating benefit shampoo Best for: Normal, dry, or oily scalps Non-drugstoreChelatingAlso deep cleaning | normal, dry, oily | strong |
![]() Pureology Strength Cure Shampoo - For Damaged or Color-Treated Hair | Conditioning, strengthens damaged hair Best for: Normal to dry scalps, coarse/thick hair that is NOT easily weighed down Non-drugstoreStrengthening | - | light, moderate |
CeraVe Hydrating Anti Dandruff Shampoo | Medicated (OTC). Best for: Reducing itching, irritation, scaling, and flaking (see a doctor for diagnosis). Normal to dry scalps, sensitive scalps, most hair types but especially good for dry/damaged DrugstoreMedicated | normal, dry | moderate |
Dove Bond Strength Shampoo | Conditioning, heavier than intensive repair Best for: Coarse/thick hair that not easily weighed down, normal/dry scalps DrugstoreStrengthening | - | moderate |
Dove Derma Scalp Dandruff Relief Shampoo with Salicylic Acid | Medicated (OTC). Best for: Reducing itching, irritation, scaling, and flaking (see a doctor for diagnosis). Normal to dry scalps, most hair types but especially good for dry/damaged DrugstoreMedicated | normal, dry | moderate |
Dove Derma Scalp Density Boost Shampoo | Aimed at strengthening the scalp moisture barrier, fortifying roots, and improving hair retention. Best for: Most scalp types; most hair types especially dry/damaged DrugstoreScalp Health | normal, dry, oily | moderate |
Dove Intensive Repair Shampoo | Conditioning Best for: Coarse/thick hair that not easily weighed down, normal/dry scalps DrugstoreStrengthening | - | moderate, strong |
Head & Shoulders Classic Clean Anti-Dandruff Shampoo | Medicated (OTC). Best for: Itching, scaling, and flaking concerns (see a doctor for diagnosis) DrugstoreMedicatedAlso deep cleaning | oily | strong |
L'OREAL Elvive Glycolic Gloss Shampoo | Conditioning, soft lightweight results with boosted shine Best for: Most hair types, most scalp types DrugstoreStrengthening | - | moderate, strong |
L'Oreal EverPure Clarifying Shampoo | Hard water deposit removal, residue free; also a chelating benefit shampoo Best for: Normal, dry, or oily scalps DrugstoreChelatingAlso deep cleaning | normal, dry, oily | moderate |
L'OREAL Everpure Glossing Shampoo | Conditioning, heavier than Elvive Glycolic Gloss Shampoo Best for: Most hair types, most scalp types DrugstoreStrengthening | - | moderate, strong |
L'OREAL PARIS Bond Repair Sulfate Free Shampoo for Damaged Hair | Conditioning Best for: Most hair types, most scalp types DrugstoreStrengthening | - | moderate, strong |
Neutrogena Hair Restore Triple Action Scalp Detox Cleanser | Scalp buildup removal and exfoliation with a residue-free strong clean. Mandelic acid may help reduce sebum production. Best for: Oily scalps, most hair types DrugstoreScalp HealthAlso deep cleaning | oily | strong |
Neutrogena T/Sal+ 3% Salicylic Acid Anti-Dandruff Shampoo | Medicated (OTC). Best for: Exfoliating and clearing oil, flakes, and buildup. Normal to oily scalps, most hair types DrugstoreMedicatedAlso deep cleaning | normal, oily | strong |
Nizoral Anti-Dandruff Shampoo | Medicated (OTC) Best for: Reducing itching, irritation, scaling, and flaking (see a doctor for diagnosis). Most hair types, most scalp types DrugstoreMedicatedAlso deep cleaning | normal, dry, oily | moderate |
OGX ProGrowth + Peptide Clarifying Shampoo | Scalp buildup removal and exfoliation; residue-free Best for: Most hair types DrugstoreScalp HealthAlso deep cleaning | normal, dry, oily | moderate, strong |
Pantene Abundant & Strong Shampoo | Aimed at scalp health by reducing oxidative stress to support healthier growth and less shedding. Best for: Most scalp types; most hair types especially dry/damaged DrugstoreScalp Health | normal, dry, oily | moderate |
Amika The Kure Shampoo | Conditioning, milder cleanse while strengthening damaged hair Best for: Coarse/thick hair that is NOT easily weighed down Non-drugstoreStrengthening | - | light, moderate |
Dr. Groot Scalp Revitalizing Solution | Residue-free. Aimed at scalp microbiome support, fortifying follicles, hair retention, and strengthening new growth. Best for: Most scalp types, most hair types Non-drugstoreScalp HealthAlso deep cleaning | normal, dry, oily | moderate, strong |
L'Oréal Professionnel Paris Metal Detox Shampoo | Chelating benefit shampoo — gentler and more conditioning than deep-cleaning options Best for: Normal to dry scalps, damaged hair in need of more conditioning Non-drugstoreChelating | normal, dry | light |
Living Proof Clarifying Detox Shampoo | Chelating benefit shampoo — gentler and more conditioning than deep-cleaning options Best for: Normal to dry scalps, damaged hair in need of more conditioning Non-drugstoreChelating | normal, dry, oily | light, moderate |
Nioxin Hair Fall Defense Shampoo | Residue-free strong clean. Aimed at stimulating follicles, prolonging growth phase, strengthening new growth, and improving hair anchorage. Best for: Oily scalps, most hair types Non-drugstoreScalp HealthAlso deep cleaning | oily | strong |
Ouai Detox | Hard water deposit removal, residue free, heavy duty clean; also a chelating benefit shampoo Best for: Oily and extra oily scalps Non-drugstoreChelatingAlso deep cleaning | oily, extra oily | strong |
Redken Acidic Bonding Shampoo | Conditioning, strengthens damaged hair Best for: Normal to dry scalps, coarse/thick hair that is NOT easily weighed down Non-drugstoreStrengthening | - | light, moderate |
Redken Acidic Grow Full Densifying Shampoo | Residue-free strong clean. Aimed at scalp barrier support, reducing hair fall from brushing, and strengthening new growth. Best for: Oily scalps, most hair types Non-drugstoreScalp HealthAlso deep cleaning | oily | strong |
Can't find these products?
Abbey recommends bond repair for anyone with any level of damage. She has two broad categories, which I'll call strong and weak bond builders. This is my terminology and you can read more about it in my bond repair guide
Strong bond builders target the strongest internal bonds in hair (like disulfide bonds), which are only broken by:
Products in this category include Eprès, K18, and Olaplex. In my opinion you only need these if you have those specific types of damage and they're a waste of money otherwise. I haven't seen Abbey address this distinction directly, but it's worth knowing.
If you do need strong bond repair, in my opinion the priority order is Eprès first (read more in my bond repair guide), then K18, then Living Proof (and only use Living Proof's bond repair if you heat style, since it's heat activated).
Weaker bond builders target more temporary bonds. As of this writing all the cheaper drugstore options fall into this category. These are fine for other types of damage. For example when I had a hair analysis, I had some significant mechanical damage on my ends.
As for how many bond repair products you need, when my hair was long with mildly mechanically damaged ends, one product was plenty (the Garnier Hair Filler product she used to recommend, now discontinued). My general rule is to scale up based on your level of damage, not to stack products by default.
Abbey classifies bond repair products by weight, with lighter options providing less conditioning and heavier ones providing more.
| Product | Details | Weight |
|---|---|---|
![]() Eprès Bond Repair Treatment | Best for: Most hair types, even those that are weighed down easily Non-drugstorestrong-bond-repair | very light |
![]() K18 Molecular Repair Hair Mask | Reconnects keratin chains and disulfide bonds Best for: Most hair types Non-drugstorestrong-bond-repair | light, medium |
![]() Living Proof Triple Bond Complex | Create new hydrogen, ionic and covalent bonds Best for: Most hair types but may weigh some hair down, heat is needed to active this product so best for those who heat style Non-drugstorestrong-bond-repair | light, medium |
L'Oreal Paris EverPure Sulfate Free Bond Repair Pre Shampoo Treatment | Rebuilds weak ionic bonds to reinforce hair structure, can be used as a pre-shampoo treatment or post-shampoo treatment Best for: Most hair types but most likely to cause weigh down Drugstoreweak-bond-repair | medium, heavy |
OGX Repair & Protect Bond Protein Repair Pre-Shampoo Treatment | Abbey recommends using this after the shampoo instead of before for boosted effectiveness. Creates new hydrogen & ionic bonds to support internal keratin structure Best for: Most hair types but may cause weigh down Drugstoreweak-bond-repair | medium |
Pantene Pro-Vitamin Essence | Increases hair tensile strength Best for: Most hair types, even those that are weighed down easily Drugstoreweak-bond-repair | very light |
Redken Acidic Bonding Concentrate Treatment For Damaged Hair Repair | Captures metal ions, reinforces weakened bonds Best for: Most hair types but most likely to cause weigh down Non-drugstoreweak-bond-repair | medium, heavy |
Can't find these products? There aren't good substitutes for Eprès, K18, or Living Proof specifically. For the others, look for products labeled bond repair, but it's worth reading my bond repair guide first to understand what different bond repair actives actually do.
This is an optional step and Abbey recommends it mainly for people whose hair gets rough or tangly during shampooing. It's also one of the steps people most often misuse, so it's worth understanding before you try it.
If you do it when you don't need it, use the wrong weight, or use too much, it can weigh your hair down significantly. Her videos on these products are worth watching to get a sense of how much to use.
She offers three options, all from OGX, one for each weight:
In my opinion these are most useful on the ends of longer hair, especially if you have an oily scalp and drier ends, since it lets you use a stronger shampoo without over-stripping the ends.
Do they wash out? Somewhat, but that's not really the point. Think of them as spot treatment for areas you want protected during washing, not as a conditioning treatment.
| Product | Details | Weight |
|---|---|---|
OGX Extra Strength Damage Remedy + Coconut Miracle Oil | Drugstore | heavy |
OGX Nourishing + Coconut Milk Anti-Breakage Serum | Drugstore | medium |
OGX Nourishing + Coconut Oil Weightless Hydrating Oil Mist | Hair feeling dry between wash Drugstorebetween-wash-dryness-relief | light |
Can't find these products? You're not looking for a regular kitchen oil here. You want a mixture of oils and silicones or silicone substitutes which provide extra lubrication. The OGX products are a good reference point for what that looks like.
These are oily/creamy products that add smoothness and shine after styling. She has recommendations listed by weight which is worth paying attention to here since these are particularly prone to weighing hair down. If your hair turns greasy or is easily weighed down, you might wanna skip this step.
| Product | Details | Weight |
|---|---|---|
![]() Bumble and bumble. Hairdresser's Invisible Oil Long Last Styling Cream | Non-drugstorestyle-smoothing | medium |
![]() Living Proof No Frizz Vanishing Oil | Non-drugstorestyle-heatstyle-smoothing | light |
Dove Damage Therapy Intensive Repair 10 in 1 Serum | Hair feeling dry between wash Drugstorebetween-wash-dryness-relief | medium |
Dove Serum Bond Strength for Chemically Damaged Hair with Bio-Protein Care Technology and Peptide Complex | Drugstorestyle-smoothing | medium |
L'Oreal Paris Blow Dry Primer for 48 HR Frizz Control | Drugstorestyle-heatstyle-smoothing | light, medium |
OGX Renewing + Argan Oil of Morocco Extra Penetrating Oil | Hair feeling dry between wash Drugstorebetween-wash-dryness-relief | heavy |
OGX Renewing + Argan Oil of Morocco Weightless Healing Dry Oil Spray | Drugstorestyle-heatstyle-smoothing | light |
OGX Repair & Protect Bond Protein Repair 3-in-1 Oil Mist | Drugstorestyle-heatstyle-smoothing | light |
Pantene Miracle Rescue 3 in 1 Leave In Conditioner | Drugstorestyle-smoothingstyle-softening | medium, heavy |
Amika Superfruit Star | Hair feeling dry between wash Non-drugstorebetween-wash-dryness-relief | light |
Bumble & Bumble Invisible Oil Styling Cream | Non-drugstorestyle-hold | medium, heavy |
Redken Acidic Bonding Leave-In | Non-drugstorestyle-smoothingstyle-softening | light, medium |
Can't find these products? Look for a mixture of oils and silicones or silicone substitutes, things labeled "finishing oil" or "anti-frizz serum" that instruct you to apply on dry or damp hair.
She has options for different goals, but keep in mind these are mostly geared toward those who style their hair mostly straight:
If you're wearing your hair in a natural wavy, curly, or coily texture these may not translate well. Personally I've only found her texture recommendations useful on days when I'm not trying to enhance my waves and am going for a beachy undone look.
| Product | Details |
|---|---|
![]() K18 AstroLift™ Reparative Volume Spray | Volume Non-drugstorestyle-volume |
TRESemmé Dry Texture Finishing Mist | Texture Drugstorestyle-texture |
TRESemmé Plumping Mousse Amplified Volume | Volume Drugstorestyle-volume |
Living Proof Full Dry Volume & Texture Spray | Texture Non-drugstorestyle-texturestyle-volume |
Oribe Dry Texturizing Spray | Texture Non-drugstorestyle-texture |
R+Co Intense Hold shaping balm | Hold Non-drugstorestyle-hold |
Can't find these products? Look for texturizing sprays for texture, hairsprays for hold, and volumizing sprays or mousses for volume.
These cover three between-wash needs:
She classifies these by weight (see the product weight section if you skipped ahead).
| Product | Details |
|---|---|
![]() Amika Midnight Mender | Hair feeling dry between wash Non-drugstorebetween-wash-dryness-relief |
![]() IGK GOOD BEHAVIOR Spirulina Protein Smoothing Spray | Heat protection Non-drugstorebetween-wash-heat-protection |
![]() Living Proof Perfect Hair Day Advanced Clean Dry shampoo | Dry shampoo Non-drugstorebetween-wash-oil-control-relief |
Dove Damage Therapy Intensive Repair 10 in 1 Serum | Hair feeling dry between wash Drugstorebetween-wash-dryness-relief |
Dove Volume Advanced Dry Shampoo | Dry shampoo Drugstorebetween-wash-oil-control-relief |
Not Your Mother's Clean Freak Dry Shampoo | Dry shampoo Drugstorebetween-wash-oil-control-relief |
OGX Nourishing + Coconut Oil Weightless Hydrating Oil Mist | Hair feeling dry between wash Drugstorebetween-wash-dryness-relief |
OGX Renewing + Argan Oil of Morocco Extra Penetrating Oil | Hair feeling dry between wash Drugstorebetween-wash-dryness-relief |
Amika Perk Up Plus | Dry shampoo Non-drugstorebetween-wash-oil-control-relief |
Amika Superfruit Star | Hair feeling dry between wash Non-drugstorebetween-wash-dryness-relief |
Bumble and bumble. Hairdresser's Invisible Oil Frizz-Reducing Hair Oil | Hair feeling dry between wash Non-drugstorebetween-wash-dryness-relief |
Living Proof Perfect Hair Day Heat Styling Spray | Heat protection Non-drugstorebetween-wash-heat-protection |
Moroccanoil Perfect Defense Heat Protectant | Heat protection Non-drugstorebetween-wash-heat-protection |
ORIBE Gold Lust Dry Heat Protection Spray | Heat protection Non-drugstorebetween-wash-heat-protection |
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Plenty of people with wavy, curly, and coily hair use her regular recommendations without modification. Regular products work fine on any hair type as long as they work for you. But there are a few things worth knowing before you dive in.
Abbey's method isn't designed for curl-focused styling. If you want to style your hair the way most of the curly community does (high-hold products, scrunching out the crunch, defined clumps) you'll need to adapt. She doesn't recommend strong-hold stylers, not because she's against them, but because she wears her hair mostly straight and they're probably not on her radar.
A few curly-specific things to watch out for:
As a general rule, lean lighter if you have wavy or fine hair, and heavier the more shrinkage your hair has, unless your hair is fine, in which case lighter usually wins regardless of curl pattern. The "What to substitute" notes in each step above can also help you find curly/wavy alternatives for specific products.
If you're not sure if your hair is wavy, loose curls, coils or something else, check out our hair type quiz.
Barbie Delle, who has curly hair, has also shared her thoughts on the routine if you want a curly-hair perspective beyond mine.
Here is a summary of all the steps, the product type, and whether optional or required:
| Step | Name | Product Type | Frequency | Status |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| #1 | Pre-wash bond repair treatment | Bond repair treatment (Eprès Bond Repair Treatment) | 2x a week | Optional |
| #2 | Pre-shampoo oil treatment | Oil treatments (OGX Coconut Oil line) | As needed | Optional |
| #3 | Deep cleaning shampoo | Residue-free deep cleaning / purifying shampoos | At least once a week | Required |
| #4 | Benefit shampoo | Strengthening, chelating, scalp health, or medicated shampoos | Other wash days / as needed | Optional |
| #5 | Post-shampoo bond repair treatment | Bond treatments (K18, drugstore alternatives) | 2x a week | Optional |
| #6 | Rinse-out conditioner | Conditioner, gloss, or mask depending on hair needs | Every wash | Required |
| #7 | Post-wash bond repair | Bond repair treatment | As needed for very damaged hair | Optional |
| #8 | Leave-in conditioner + heat protection | Leave-ins with heat protection (light, medium, or heavy) | Every wash | Required |
| #9 | Styling products | Mousses, hairsprays, balms, texture sprays | As desired | Optional |
| #10 | Style sealers | Lotions, creams, oil serums (light, medium, or heavy) | After styling | Optional |
| #11 |
Porosity is used to mean two different things online: how damaged your hair is, or how your hair reacts to water and products. If you want the full breakdown, I cover it in my porosity guide. For the purposes of this method, the damage definition is the one that matters.
This method is mainly for high or mixed porosity hair: in other words, damaged hair. Abbey colors her hair, and her ends have accumulated years of weathering, so her routine is built around that reality.
If your hair is low porosity (undamaged), the method probably won't hurt you, but most of her product picks are formulated for damaged hair — they're likely to feel too heavy and frankly be a waste of money. That's not because of the usual myths like "protein is bad for low porosity hair" (it isn't), it's just a formulation mismatch.
If you're using the internet definition of porosity instead, the practical answer is simple: low porosity maps to lighter products, high porosity maps to heavier ones. But as I argue in the porosity guide, that framing is less useful than just knowing your hair's actual characteristics.
Abbey's recommended products are standard, well-tested, and safe. That said, some people do report issues and it usually comes down to conditioning level. Rather than getting caught up in protein vs. moisture debates, the more useful question is whether your hair is over or under-conditioned:
These issues usually come down to:
If your hair feels stiff or brittle, don't keep doing the same routine. Stiff, brittle hair is more vulnerable to actual damage. Clarify, switch up your products, and aim for results that leave your hair feeling smooth and flexible. I explain what's happening chemically in my post on so-called "protein overload".
I'm honestly not the best candidate for this method. My hair is wavy, almost straight when long, and mostly undamaged and low porosity. I don't dye, bleach, or heat style (beyond like light diffusing). The only exception was when my hair was over 20 inches long because the ends were higher porosity by then, so I experimented with bond repair on just those. I don't miss how annoying my long hair was to care for, but I do miss having high porosity ends to test products on.
Here's what I noticed:

Melissa McEwen is the creator of CurlsBot. She is a software developer with training in science writing and a B.S. in Agricultural Science. Her writing has appeared in publications such as NPR and Quartz.

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| Between-wash care |
| Masks, mist serums, spray leave-ins, dry shampoo |
| Between washes as needed |
| Optional |