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Full Abbey Yung Method guide with step-by-step instructions, product lists, routine examples, and a curly/wavy hair review.
If you're here, you've probably heard of the Abbey Yung method. If not, it's a haircare routine created by beauty influencer Abbey Yung. It’s gained popularity partly because her hair looks amazing, and partly because she goes against a lot of the trends people are tired of. She recommends affordable drugstore products, pushes back against “chemophobia” (the fear of ingredients like sulfates and silicones), and says to wash your hair as often as you actually need. In a world where influencers warn that your hair will fall out if you wash more than once a week or touch a drugstore product, her approach feels refreshing.
In many ways, her routine is the opposite of the Curly Girl Method. It might even be the perfect option for those of us who are “silicone curious” like myself.
I was intrigued by her method, but honestly a little intimidated by the number of steps. I ended up rewatching her videos, taking notes, and trying out some of her recommended products and techniques myself.
Please note these are all MY notes on Abbey's method and are not endorsed by Abbey at all.
Abbey Yung is a beauty influencer and a certified trichologist, which means she has professional training in scalp health. Her own hair is famously shiny and long, even though she colors and heat styles it, which are two things that usually cause a lot of damage. She’s even talked about how she transitioned to a darker blonde in the past couple of years because the lighter shade was just too damaging. Here’s the TikTok where she explains it.
Another thing to know: her hair is really long. The longer hair gets, the more “weathering” it goes through, which basically means the ends become higher porosity from sun, wind, washing, and just existing. Combine that with chemical coloring, and it’s safe to say Abbey’s hair falls into the high porosity category with the highest porosity at the ends where she's still growing out the damage from being lighter blonde. I call this "mixed" porosity.
That detail matters, because a lot of her product choices and techniques are designed with high porosity hair in mind.
Abbey Yung says she created her method to keep both the scalp and hair looking and feeling as healthy as possible. It’s especially helpful for people with stressed or damaged hair (aka high porosity hair).
The core principles are pretty simple:
In other words, it’s about giving your hair consistent care and protection instead of restricting washes or avoiding certain ingredients just because the internet says so.
Here’s where it gets a little complicated: the method has 11 steps, and some of them are optional. Don’t worry though, I’ll break it down into the core steps most people do, and then the optional ones you can add depending on your hair needs.
There are only 3 required steps in the Abbey Yung method
This keeps your scalp and hair free of buildup, which is especially important if you use a lot of products.
Products: Look for non-conditioning shampoos labeled “clarifying” or “purifying.” If you have hard water, go for one formulated specifically for that.
Example Product
Abbey suggests tailoring this to your hair’s needs: use a gloss if you want something light, a mask if you need something heavy, and regular conditioner if you need something in between.
Products:
Example products:
A conditioner formulated for adding strength to damaged hair
A mask that provides a richer, heavier alternative to conditioner
The key here is sectioning your hair so every strand gets covered.
Products: Leave-ins that specifically include heat protection. She has different recommendations for light, medium, and heavy products.
Example:
These are extras you can add depending on how damaged your hair is. Steps 9–11 are more about styling and between-wash care.
Great for brittle, damaged hair—especially if you don’t want to stand around doing step 5 in the shower.
Products: Easy—Abbey only recommends one here: Eprès Bond Repair Treatment.
Apply about 20 minutes before washing if your hair tangles easily or feels rough.
Products: Oils like OGX Coconut Oil line are the only ones I've seen her recommend.
Examples:
⚠️ Note: The OGX "oils" are mixes of oils and other ingredients like silicones, not straight-up kitchen oils. They’re way easier to use and more effective then like the olive oil in your kitchen.
For people who wash more than once a week but need something gentler than the step 3 clarifying shampoo. Abbey also says to swap this with a dandruff shampoo if you need it.
Products: Shampoos for damaged/dry hair (“color care,” “hydration,” etc.) and/or medicated dandruff shampoos (look for active ingredients on the label).
Example:
For damaged hair. This is where Abbey usually recommends K18, but she also presents a couple of cheaper drugstore alternatives.
Products: K18 or similar bond treatments. Pro tip: use them at this step instead of pre-shampoo (even if the product label says otherwise).
Example:
For very damaged hair you can apply this treatment to towel-dried hair and let it sit for 10 minutes before layering in other leave-ins.
Products: Another single-product category: Living Proof Triple Bond Complex.
For volume, curl definition, texture, or hold. Choose what works best for your style.
Products: Mousses, hairsprays, balms, or texture sprays.
Example:
Add softness, shine, or smoothness after styling.
Products: Lotions, creams, and oil serums. She has different recommendations for light, medium, and heavy products.
Examples:
Root refreshers, light styling, or heat touch-ups. Just remember: these don’t replace wash day.
Products: Masks, mist serums, spray leave-ins, oil serums, heat protectants, or dry shampoo.
Examples: Amika Midnight Mender hair feeling dry between wash IGK GOOD BEHAVIOR Spirulina Protein Smoothing Spray: heat protection dry shampoo: Living Proof Perfect Hair Day Advanced Clean Dry shampoo
A heat protectant spray Abbey recommends for if you do any heat styling between washes
A dry shampoo Abbey recommends for if you need to refresh your hair between washes
Abbey’s rule is simple: wash as often as you need. Some people’s hair and scalp can go longer, some can’t. And that’s totally fine. She’s firmly against the idea of forcing yourself to stretch wash days when your hair feels greasy or uncomfortable.
Abbey has said she doesn’t always do the exact same routine every wash day. Instead, she switches it up depending on how her hair feels. Some examples:
Both Abbey and I use this terminology. In general, “light” products have fewer conditioning ingredients, while “heavy” products are more packed with them.
Abbey’s take: light products are better for fine hair, and heavy products for coarse hair.
My take: curl pattern also matters.
If you're looking for light products I wrote a guide on how to find them that's free!
For a full list of products, check out the spreadsheet linked at the end of this post. These routines are my interpretations of Abbey’s recommendations, not official routines from her.
For hair that does well with heavier products, such as coarse hair.
For damaged hair that does better with medium-weight products and hard water.
What I call “mixed porosity” hair. These picks line up with Abbey’s light/oily scalp recommendations. This is the routine I would pick for myself (fine, wavy hair) if I used her exact product recommendations.
If I added in bonding here I'd do it only at the ends.
Here is a summary of all the steps, the product type, and whether optional or required:
Step | Name | Product Type | Frequency | Status |
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#1 | Pre-wash bond repair treatment | Bond repair treatment (Eprès Bond Repair Treatment) | 2x a week | Optional |
#2 | Pre-shampoo oil treatment | Oil treatments (OGX Coconut Oil line) | As needed | Optional |
#3 | Clarifying / deep cleaning shampoo | Clarifying or purifying shampoos | At least once a week | Required |
#4 | Gentle cleansing shampoo | Shampoos for damaged/dry hair or dandruff shampoos | Other wash days | Optional |
#5 | Post-shampoo bond repair treatment | Bond treatments (K18, drugstore alternatives) | 2x a week | Optional |
#6 | Rinse-out conditioner | Conditioner, gloss, or mask depending on hair needs | Every wash | Required |
#7 | Post-wash bond repair | Bond repair treatment (Living Proof Triple Bond Complex) | As needed for very damaged hair | Optional |
#8 | Leave-in conditioner + heat protection | Leave-ins with heat protection (light, medium, or heavy) | Every wash | Required |
#9 | Styling products | Mousses, hairsprays, balms, texture sprays | As desired | Optional |
#10 | Style sealers | Lotions, creams, oil serums (light, medium, or heavy) | After styling | Optional |
#11 | Between-wash care | Masks, mist serums, spray leave-ins, dry shampoo | Between washes as needed | Optional |
First, let’s get this out of the way: very few of Abbey’s recommendations are labeled specifically for curly or wavy hair. But honestly you don’t need special curly/wavy products. In fact, if your hair is fine, loosely curled, or wavy, you might actually do better without them.
That said, Abbey’s method isn’t designed for curls. If you want to style your hair the way most of the curly community does (high-hold products, scrunching out the crunch, etc.), you’ll need to adapt. Abbey doesn’t really recommend any strong-hold stylers, which doesn't mean she's against them, they just probably aren't on her radar given she wears her hair pretty straight.
A few other curly-specific notes:
As a rule of thumb:
Barbie Delle, who has curly hair, has also shared some thoughts on Abbey Yung's routine that you may find interesting.
This method is mainly for high or mixed porosity hair. High porosity basically means damaged hair, most often from coloring or bleaching. Since Abbey colors her hair (even if she does it gently), she has high porosity hair. On top of that, her hair is long, and the ends of long hair are never fully low porosity. As hair ages, the ends naturally become more porous.
Abbey’s method is not for low porosity hair. And that’s not because of the usual myths like “protein is bad for low porosity” (it isn’t and I debunk it here). It’s simply because most of her product picks are formulated for damaged, high porosity hair.
Will they hurt low porosity hair? Probably not. But they’re likely to feel too heavy, and honestly, they’ll just be a waste of money.
From a science-based perspective, all of Abbey’s recommended products are standard, well-tested, and safe. There’s no real reason they would cause damage.
That said, some people report issues—and I think it usually comes down to:
Here’s a good rule: if your hair feels stiff or brittle, don’t keep pushing the same routine. Stiff/brittle hair is more vulnerable to actual damage. Clarify, switch up your products, and aim for results that leave your hair feeling smooth and flexible.
As for other complaints, one person said their hair literally changed color (from blonde to brown) after following the method. Scientifically, that’s not possible. Cases of hair darkening in the medical literature are linked to medications or health issues, not everyday hair products. I've written about this on the hair science subreddit.
I’m honestly not the best candidate for this method. My hair is wavy, almost straight when long, and mostly undamaged, low-porosity. I don’t dye, bleach, or heat style. The only thing is that when my hair was over 20 inches long, the ends were higher porosity (I call this mixed porosity), so I did experiment with some bond repair on just the ends. I don't miss how annoying my long hair was to care for, but I do miss testing high porosity products on the ends.
Here’s what I noticed:
If I take more inspiration from her method, I think the next step for me would be trying out some of the stylers she likes especially since I wear my hair in loose waves more and more these days.
What I love most about Abbey Yung is that she pushes back against the fear-mongering that’s everywhere in the haircare world. She encourages people to use affordable, accessible products without guilt, and she’s refreshingly pro-science about ingredients.
That said, her routine is complicated, and it’s really meant for damaged (high porosity) hair. If that’s you, her method could be a game-changer. If it’s not, you might not need all the extra steps or all the bonding products.
Either way, she’s given the haircare space something valuable: permission to care for your hair without fear.
Product | Step |
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Drugstore Heavy | 2 |
Drugstore Medium | 2 |
Drugstore Light Hair feeling dry between wash | 211 |
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Heavy duty clean | 3 |
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Hard water, normal/dry scalp | 3 |
Hard water, normal/dry scalp | 3 |
Heavy duty clean, Most powerful | 3 |
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Drugstore | 4 |
Drugstore | 4 |
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Drugstore Medium | 8 |
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Pantene Miracle Rescue 10 in 1 Multitasking Leave in Conditioner Spray Drugstore Light | 8 |
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Drugstore Light | 8 |
9 | |
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Texture | 9 |
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MediumHeavy | 10 |
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L'Oreal Elvive Total Repair 5 Protein Recharge Treatment Drugstore MediumHeavy | 10 |
Drugstore LightMedium | 10 |
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Drugstore Light | 10 |
Drugstore MediumHeavy | 10 |
LightMedium | 10 |
1011 | |
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Drugstore Heavy Hair feeling dry between wash | 1011 |
Hair feeling dry between wash | 11 |
Dry shampoo | 11 |
Hair feeling dry between wash | 11 |
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Heat protection | 11 |
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Heat protection | 11 |
Heat protection | 11 |
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Heat protection | 11 |
Melissa McEwen is the creator of CurlsBot. She is a software developer with training in science writing and chemistry. Her writing has appeared in publications such as NPR and Quartz.
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